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Everyday of our lives requires that we grow in order to reach our full potential.  At
times the change is subtle and we hardly recognize it until months or years down the
road, at other times it is abrupt.  With the death of a loved one or the birth of a new
soul, these changes are more or less expected albeit the timing can confuse us, these
changes are inevitable.  An impending divorce though, leaves dangling threads and these
threads appear as one last chance to change something, get back what we had.  
Knowing when to hold on to something and when to let go requires our innermost self to
examine with utmost honesty not only whether we really want it but most important whether
we really need it.  Life is about individual growth and sometimes that growth is in two
different directions, even with people who have grown together to a point before.  The
pain of a divorce can be debilitating to some.
Butters and Charlie have decided on a divorce, it breaks our hearts as we love Butters
like one of our own.  But, life goes on and we are proud of Charlie for the leaps and
bounds that he has taken toward a positive life since they separated several months ago.  
We also wish Butters all the best and know in our hearts that she is continuing further.  
They have both gotten each other to a pivotal point through their years of marriage.  The
time they grew together is and always will be, important.
Charlie has put all of his energy into building the kinda of life he wants now, he has a
plan, a wonderful job and a beutiful home in the country on 17 acres.  He is beating the
struggle of knowing what he wants and needs as opposed to what he needs to give.  Charlie
is all but 22 years old and  has just recently become divorced but his maturity in this
time has astounded us.
We expect, of course, great things for him.

Charlie moved with his brother Jason and wife Charlotte to Mount Pleasant Texas.  He has
developed a great relationship with his nephew Little-man whom he even baby-sits from
time to time (short periods) and feeds.  With Me and Anthony only ten minutes away, we
all are enjoying each other, the long separations, due to time and distance are no longer
hurdles.
With out the darkness we wouldn't appreciate the light
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The kids visiting us at home!
l-r My sister Tonya, me with Charlie in
my lap, Anthony  and littleman and
Charlotte.
OH!  and Aussie!
One of Charlie's favorite Pics!
Charlie has recently made a
career choice that we are proud
to support.  He is working for
Jaytex Aviation, and training for
Government Logistics.  He loves
his job and the challenges it
presents him with.  He and his
his nephew Littleman have also
become great buddies....